A gap is normal; the two sources are not counting the same thing. Your database records every order that was placed. GA4 records what a visitor's browser managed to send. Common reasons for fewer purchases in GA4:
- Consent. Where a visitor declines analytics, nothing is sent.
- Blockers. Some browsers and extensions block analytics requests.
- The page closed too early. The visitor leaves the confirmation page before the event is sent.
- Orders that never reach the thank-you page, such as phone orders, manual orders and refunds recorded later.
- Time zones. Day boundaries differ between the database and the GA4 property.
- Duplicates work the other way: a refreshed confirmation page can send a purchase twice unless the transaction id is used to de-duplicate.
To find yours, compare a short period order by order using the transaction id: list the ids in the database that GA4 does not have and look for what they share. A steady gap of a similar size is a known blind spot; a gap that suddenly widens usually means a tracking change broke something. The article GA4 events are missing or wrong: a systematic checklist has the steps.